MEET COACH DEBBIE

Certified Rapid Reprogramming Coach

My story

I’m not just a coach.

I’m a woman who found her way through the dark.

There was a season of my life when I woke up every morning and the first thing my brain offered me was a catalog of everything I’d lost. The future I’d planned. The identity I’d built. The version of myself that existed inside that relationship.

What made it harder was that the loss wasn’t clean. There was no single moment I could point to and say “that’s when it ended.” It was a slow unraveling — what researchers call ambiguous loss.

"The kind of grief that doesn’t come with a casserole dish or a sympathy card."

The kind that other people can’t quite see, so you learn to carry it quietly.

I spent a long time doing everything right on the outside and falling apart on the inside. I tried journaling, reading, keeping busy. None of it reached the part of me that was still stuck in the old story.

What finally changed things wasn’t a mindset tip. It was understanding what was happening at the subconscious level — and learning how to actually work there.

"You deserve support exactly where you are right now. The moment you recognize you're carrying more than one person should carry alone — that is the moment help belongs."

I became a certified Rapid Reprogramming Coach because I wanted to give women what I didn’t have — a clear, science-backed process for releasing the patterns that keep you stuck, rebuilding the identity that loss took from you, and building something new that actually feels like yours.

That’s what Thriving After Us is. And that’s why I’m here.

How I work — and why it’s different.

 ✦  Certified Rapid Reprogramming Coach

Certified through The Thought Work Institute. Rapid Reprogramming works directly with the subconscious mind — where your patterns, beliefs, and stories actually live. It’s faster and deeper than traditional talk-based approaches.

✦  Neuroscience-informed

Everything I teach is grounded in how the brain actually works — neuroplasticity, the Reticular Activating System, and the science of identity change. No fluff. No toxic positivity. Real tools that work.

✦  Lived experience

I’m not coaching from a textbook. I’ve navigated ambiguous loss and identity rebuilding personally. That lived experience shapes everything about how I show up for the women I work with.

✦  Warmth-first

This work is deep and it requires trust. I lead with warmth, honesty, and complete belief in the women I work with. You will never feel judged, rushed, or like a project in my presence.

Ready to work together?

Start with the free Mental Reset guide

Or explore the Thriving After Us program to see if it’s the right next step for you.